24 Jan

Why is it so Difficult?

Семейные Расстановки по Берту Хеллингеру в Торонто

When we have to deal with our relationships, work related or social situations, actually, any life situations, we might find this is way to difficult, annoying, irritating and so on. Why?

There could be different reasons, and one of them, probably, the most common, is when we deal with adult situations as children. Many people just look like they are adults, but really, they are children. In other words, those adult-bodies are being driven by their inner children. This is much more comfortable to deal with adult situations when being adults.
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25 Nov

Success

What is success? Everyone understands it differently. For someone success is a good health, for another it is having children, or a good relationship, or, perhaps, inner peace, or professional life, wealth, and so on.
Looking at success with a wider gaze, we can say that we are all here to live. Then, perhaps, success is something that serves life, its continuation and development.

There are plenty of financially successful businesses that do not really serve life. For example, manufacturers that produce food, full of artificial ingredients, GMO foods, and so on. Being financially successful, these companies do not serve life, they harm their customers’ health. If you have a question, how to be successful in harmony with life, then family constellations by Bert Hellinger is the work helping with this. This work gave the a lot of insights about success. Here are a few examples of the most common situations (every person’s situation is unique): Read More

24 Nov

Philosophy of Success

Family Constellations in Toronto (a method by Bert Hellinger)

We are all successful.
The question is, what are we successful at?

I see all people successfully serving something.

Some of us serve this life by serving the now. Whoever serves the now is serving the future, is serving the life. This way we are successful in serving life.
Many of us serve the past. And this takes our energy away from life. Whoever serves the past is also successful, just in serving past. And family constellations show that many of us serve the past, not the life. Read More

10 Nov

School of Life

Family Constellations Toronto Vaughat

Happiness, health, success in relationships/work, inner harmony – many people are looking for it.

Bert Helliner, the author of the family constellations method, got once challenged by a question about people’s happiness. “What is more important to you, the dogma (the rules) or people’s happiness?” – this question was life changing for Bert Hellinger. At that time Hellinger was in Africa as a catholic missionary. After having sleepless night, Hellinger decided that people’s happiness is more important to him. It was from then that he began intensive search in the direction of psychology, psychiatry, and so on. The search for these resulted in him creating the so-called school of life, the school that teaches people to live happily, successfully, their full potential. In the process of searching Hellinger created a method of family constellations.

Family constellations – this is a very deep work on a soul level. Read More

08 Nov

Professional Success

Where is the source of success in professional life located?
Why are some people professionally more successful than others?
Why does one person can be easily trusted to lead the project, and the project will be successful, at three same time with the other person the project will fail?
Why some people are paid better that the other ones?

What is the root of the situation?

Bert Hellinger, the author of the family constellations method, gave us such an aphorism: “Success has the the face of the mother.” Read More

05 Aug

Joy

“I would like to say a few words about joy. I see how immediately brighten the faces. Once I wrote one aphorism: “The problem is difficult – the solution is joyful.” This joy, if has settled in us, lights up when we communicate with others, no matter how difficult our problem was.
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27 Dec

Victims and Perpetrators. Where is is safe for the descendants?

Victims and Perpetrators
Where is is safe for the descendants?
And where is it unsafe?

This is safe
to see and accept both sides of the past situation/conflict. Both, victims and perpetrators. A victim energy attracts its perpetrator. And a perpetrator energy finds its victim. They meet and neutralize (balance) each other. Like in a chemical reaction. The unbalance on the family level is actually created by the other family members, who don’t want to see one of the parties. When seeing both parties, this creates a state of the neutral balance. This is safe. Read More

27 Dec

Easy Ways of Dropping your Frequency

Easy Ways to Drop your Frequency:
– Questioning the life
– Blaming
– Judging
Any ways questioning, why things are the way they are (horrible sometimes), or blaming – all this comes from judging. First you judge, and take sides, and decide that things could have been different, better. Then you start either blaming or screaming out your “Why?!?”. This is what drops your frequency and gets you disconnected from the source of your power. Read More

27 Dec

Bert Hellinger as a Peacemaker

Did you know this about Bert Hellinger?
Yes, all his work is intended for reconciliation. His work helps to heal soul traumas either for one person (or a family) or even for groups of people and countries. “Big conflict” is one of his books dedicated exactly to explain the origins of big conflicts. In this book are discussed many very important things about how big conflicts start and how they grow into wars. He also explains about heroes and more. These all are separate topics to discuss.