12 May

How do We Create Problems. Easy Way :)

Family Constellations Toronto Method by Bert Hellinger

How our every day tasks turn into problems, health turns into illness, strength into weakness?

Your everyday tasks, your health, your strength, your life – all of it was given exactly to you. This means you are able to handle it. Here is one Jewish joke: “A man is asking the rabbi: “Can you give me an advice? I have a problem that I cannot solve.” The rabbi says: “I see no logic here. If you cannot solve the problem, it is not yours. If it is yours – its not a problem, the God gave you everything so you are able to deal with it.”.

So, yes, if it is your task, it is not a problem, its a task. 😉

One of the easiest and the most common ways of turning your life into a problem is when you do not see your life around you, when you do not see yourself. And this often happens when you look somewhere else. Where? In the past, often not even into your own past.

For example: If you have a business and it is not doing well, the reality might be that you do not even see it, so you have no idea what needs to be done. Same with relationships: are you sure you even see your partner?

Bert and Sophie Hellinger had founded a so called School of Life, a school that helps people connecting to life.

By Elena Nesterenko – Family & Systemic Constellations in Toronto
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